Booking an escort as a beginner is not an easy task. How to tell who’s real? How to book? How to behave on the date? Check out my Escort Guide for Beginners.
If you want to find the best, reliable escorts – local or international – it’s best to choose one of the most reputable escort directories EuroGirlsEscort. On this escort website you can find many escort girls of different looks and types and choose the perfect match for yourself.
Once you got to the escort directory and you see the listings of the escorts available in your location, you may start using the filters to choose the escort that matches your preferences.
You can choose your budget for a desired duration of the meeting. You can choose what activities you’re interested in – massage, Girlfriend Experience or maybe you’d like to explore some kinks?
You can also filter escorts by looks (eyes, hair), spoken languages, age and availability for international travels.
When choosing an escort as a beginner there are three things you should remember:
Beginner clients often make this one huge mistake when choosing an escort and often it results in being scammed or ending up with a low-standard provider:
So you found you dream escort and you want to book a date with her. But before you contact her, there is one important thing you should do if you want to be a good client.
Read her website / her profiles
Find out more about her and her services. When you contact an escort you should already know her services, rates and booking process. Ideally you would know her do’s and dont’s, if she specified them on her website.
Remember that every escort is different and has different rules and preferences on how she wants to be approached and what she accepts at the meetings. Often escorts write about it on their websites and it’s a good practice for clients to get familiar with those information.
Once you know all about your escort and you know what kind of meeting you want, it’s time to contact her.
Note that some escorts like to be texted on Whatsapp / SMS, some escorts have booking forms to fill and some prefer if clients call them.
Let’s assume your escort wants to be contacted through a message / email. When you text her, make sure you provide all the necessary information in your first message: introduction, booking details. That way you can book a date much smoother and you make a good first impression. Escorts really appreciate gentlemen who take time to read and send a proper booking request.
Some escorts require screening – especially in countries where their work is criminalized and they need to take extra precautions for their safety. Every ecort screens a bit differently, so the only universal tip I can give you here is: provide all the screening information that the escort requires or if you can’t / don’t want to, find another provider.
The same rule applies when it comes to sending a deposit. If you can’t or don’t want to send a deposit, don’t even approach the escort. Simply find someone else. Booking rules are not something a client can negotiate.
When booking an escort as beginners, clients often make those mistakes:
That’s one of the things you should decide before contacting your escort. But let’s discuss that here in the Planning a Date section.
Beginner clients often confuse incall and outcall, so let’s make sure we know the meaning of these words first.
incall – when escort meets you in her apartment
outcall – when escort goes out and meets you at your place.
Which would I recommend for the first escort date?
I think you would feel the most comfortable if you book a room in a nice hotel and invite the escort there. Hotels provide all the convenience you need for a date. You can use room service or go to the hotel restaurant / bar or even go chill in the jaccuzzi or sauna. It’s especially nice if you plan an extended date.
Preparing for an escort date is very important. I wrote 3 blog posts about it, so if you’d like to know more about preparing for a date, check them out:
It’s nice to plan your date ahead, especially if you’re having an extended meeting. A good date is well balanced with the social time and private time.
If you need some inspiration for planning a date, here are some ideas from me.
When planning out an escort date, beginners often make those mistakes:
First things first – let’s talk about the payment etiquette. It’s a well-known rule in the escort world that the payment is made at the beginning of the meeting. It’s a good practice to put the money into an envelope and put it in a visible place so the escort can easily collect it once she arrives. Depending on your escort’s preferences, you can also hand her the envelope when she comes.
One of the things that elevates every escort experience is taking time for a nice introduction and slowly starting a foreplay (especially during GFE dates). Introduction and foreplay gives you time to relax, calm down, feel comfortable with your escort and slowly get into intimacy.
My strong tip here is: do not skip intro and foreplay (unless it’s more of a PSE / fantasy meeting and you don’t need an intro there).
Many beginner clients have concerns about the sex part before they book an escort for the first time. So many things are running through their heads: What if I can’t get an erection? What if I can’t come? What if I come too quickly? What if things don’t go smooth or I do something awkward?
RELAX. First of all – things will go much better than you’re thinking. It’s not likely that all the “catastrophes” you’re worried about will even happen.
Secondly – even if you can’t get an erection or you finish “too quickly” or you can’t finish at all – it’s all right. You don’t have to feel embarassed. You don’t have to worry that the escort will be disappointed or annoyed. She is a professional and she knows it’s not a problem.
Remember, sex is not a competition and you don’t have to focus on presenting your best performance. It’s all about enjoying things with your partner. As long as you both like your intimate time together, it doesn’t matter if you come or not.
If you’d like to learn a few tips on how to last longer in bed, check out my post.
When meeting an escort for the first time, beginner clients often do some of those mistakes:
In the escort industry there are many abbreviations and words that you might want to get familiar with before booking an escort. Here you can read more about it:
Sexy Dictionary of Words related to Sex (and more…)
Is your first time with an escort going to be Your First Time in general? Read more about Virgin’s First Time Experience : Losing Virginity & the First Time Sex with an Escort.
Or maybe you’re interested in an erotic massage? Read this post if you’re planning to lose virginity at an erotic massage.
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Fly Me To You tips:
If you’re a beginner client looking for an international escort for Fly Me To You or a Warsaw escort for a meeting in Poland, check out my main page and get familiar with my services to schedule an unforgettable date.
I’m an independent escort based in Warsaw, Poland. On my blog, I write about subjects related to my work: escort dates, Girlfriend Experience, erotic massage, sex & intimacy. You can also find here interesting posts for escort clients and helpful tips for gentlemen planning to book an escort in Warsaw.
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