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A-level, also called Greek Sex is a sexual activity involving penetration of the anus. Anal sex may also involve playing with sex toys such as dildos, anal plugs, or prostate massager for men.
BJ in sex means BlowJob – oral sex, oral stimulation of the penis.
CBJ in sex means Covered Blowjob – oral sex with a condom.
BBBJ stands for BareBack BlowJob, meaning oral sex without using a condom.
OWO – Oral WithOut – means oral sex without using a condom.
Deep Throat means oral sex where the penis is inserted deeply into the mouth or throat. This activity can be performed with a woman being the active side, during a “regular blowjob” or it can be performed with the man being in charge (aka “face fuck”) as a part of dominance play / rough sex.
COB in sex means Cum On Body, ejaculation onto the partner’s body (usually breasts, belly, butt).
CIM in sex means Cum In Mouth, ejaculation into the partner’s mouth.
CIMWS in sex means Cum in Mouth with Swallow – oral sex with ejaculation in mouth involving swallowing the sperm.
CIF in sex means Cum In Face, ejaculation onto the partner’s face.
Cunnilingus means oral stimulation of the vulva, oral sex given to woman.
Rimming in sex means oral stimulation of the anus. Rimming is usually described as active (giving) and passive (taking).
Handjob is a manual stimulation of the penis to orgasm. A sensual handjob given at the end of sensual massage is usally described as Lingam massage.
Spanish sex is a sexual activity involving the penis being placed between the partner’s breasts.
FK and DFK sexual meaning is “French kiss” or “Deep French kiss” – deep kissing with tongue.
Classic sex is a sexual intercourse involving vaginal penetration.
Full service in the escort terms means that the escort provides sexual services such as oral sex and classic sex (as opposed to non-full-service providers like masseuses, mistresses or strippers that provide erotic service without sex).
Extras are additional sexual services offered by an escort, such as anal sex, role play or fetish play.
Independent escort is an escort who works independently, not for an agency.
Exclusive arrangement with an escort typically means that the client has agreed to see only that specific escort for a certain period of time, such as a week or a month. Exclusive arrangement with an escort involves a monthly upfront payment in exchange for a certain amounth of dates on agreed terms, during that time. During the arrangement, the escort is exclusively available to the client and doesn’t accept other clients. This type of arrangement is often more expensive than hiring an escort for a one-time encounter.
Long-Term arrangement with an escort is a weekly / monthly etc. arrangement that is non-exclusive – meaning that during that time the escort still accepts other clients. Long-Term arrangement means that the client pays once at the beginning of the month and can meet the escort on agreed terms for a certain amount of dates (instead of paying for each individual date).
Sugar Baby is a girl that has a regular arrangement with a man/woman during which she provides companionship and sexual services in exchange for gifts or financial support.
Sugar Daddy is a man that provides financial support and/or gifts to a woman/man in exchange for companionship and sexual services. Sugar Daddy – Sugar Baby relationship is a type of long-term arrangement (rather than one-time encounter).
GFE / Girlfriend Experience, is a unique type of an escort date in a casual atmosphere, with natural affection and genuine intimacy that feels just like meeting your own girlfriend. Here you can get a more in-depth description of GFE >> What is GFE? What does Girlfriend Experience mean?
Social time during escort date is the time spent on companionship and social activities such as dinner, going to theatre, shopping or having an introduction at cafe etc. Private time is a term used to describe time in bedroom / time spent on sexual activity.
Social date is a non-sexual date with an escort, such as dinner date, weekend getaway that does not involve sexual services.
Extended date with an escort is a longer, multi-hour date (usually 3h+).
FMTY in escort services means Fly Me To You. Fly Me to You is an escort date when the companion travels to meet the client (usually internationally).
TMTY means Train Me To You. It’s also a travel escort date, but usually it’s a meeting in the same country, where flying isn’t necessary and the escort can travel by train.
Booking a Fly Me To You date requires the client to pay the escort rate + travel costs.
Touring escort is an escort girl that travels to different cities or different countries to stay there for a few days or weeks in order to work / meet several clients.
Travel companion is an international escort that is available for Fly Me To You dates with clients.
PSE in sex means Pornstar Experience, an escort service focused rather on the action, fulfilling sexual desires, fantasies. PSE often involves anal sex, rough sex or some dominance.
Here you can read more about PSE >> PSE, KGFE, GFE compared – Everything You Must Know
KGFE in sex means Kinky GFE – an escort meeting that combines the affectionate Girlfriend Experience with a bit of PSE / BDSM and Kink activities. In this post you’ll find more information about KGFE >> PSE, KGFE, GFE compared – Everything You Must Know
BDSM in sex means Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and Submission. BDSM is a range of sexual activities involving power exchange, role play, control, fetish and playing with erotic accessories and gadgets such as gags, whips, cuffs etc.
Submission in sex is a role where one partner submits to the other’s power. Submission may involve being told what to do, pleasing a partner, having sex in submissive positions, wearing cuffs, collar or doing Role Play with a submissive role.
Dominance in sex is a role where one partner dominates the other, physically or psychologically – with a use of bondage or by controling the partners behaviour, giving orders or taking a dominant role in the Role Play.
Dom is a dominant partner in a BDSM relationship, someone who takes the dominant, powerful role.
A sub is a submissive partner in a BDSM relationship, someone who likes to take a submissive role and submit to the dominant partner’s power.
Top in a BDSM sexual dynamic in someone who likes to Give the action, be the active side.
Bottom in a BDSM sexual dynamic in someone who likes to receive the action, be the passive side during the play.
Switch is a person who likes to swap between dominant and submissive roles during sex (often depending on the partner, type of activity etc.)
Mistress is a female dominant partner in a BDSM relationship. Femdom stands for Female Dominance – a sexual activity when a female dominates the partner.
Kink / Fetish is a sexual attraction to a specific object or activity outside of conventional sexual practices. The difference between Kink and Fetish is that Kink is a sexual preference (activity / object that causes more intense arousal during sex), while Fetish is a sexual need (activity / object that is necessary for achieving sexual arousal or enjoyment). Nowadays the terms Kink and Fetish are often used interchangeably.
Foot fetish is a sexual attraction to feet and a sexual activity including foot worship, kissing, licking or receiving footjob – stimulation of the genitals with feet.
Body worship is kink where one partner worships the other’s body or specific body parts (feet, ass, breasts) by kissing, licking. Body worship is often performed as a submissive activity.
Role play is a sexual activity involving partners acting out certain roles / playing out sexual fantasy. The most popular role plays are: student-teacher, maid-hotel guest, boss-secretary. Role Play often involves the element of dominance / submission or some kinks.
Pegging is a sexual activity where the female partner penetrates the male partner with a strap-on dildo.
Squirt / Squirting is an ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during sexual activity.
GS / Golden shower is urination play where one partner urinates on the other.
Sex toys are devices / acessories used to enhance sexual pleasure, such as vibrators, dildos, plugs, clit stimulators or BDSM gadgets like cuffs, whips, gags.
Edging is a sexual activity where one partner is brought to the brink of orgasm and then stimulation is stopped to allow partner to cool down. Then the stimulation starts again. After a few cycles the partner evetually reaches an orgasm. Edging is used to extend the sexual encounter and enhance the pleasure. Edging may involve a power play such as orgasm control, orgasm denial, orgasm permission, masturbation instructions etc. Read more abut Edging here:
>> Edging: Everything You Need to Know
To read more about erotic massage and learn the most popular sensual massage terms, check out this post:
>> Glossary of Sensual Massage – Terms & Definitions
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