Edging Erotic Massage / Edging Session with Escort – Guide
Edging is a sexual techique of delaying an orgasm. Edging can be practiced during a sex edging session, edging erotic massage / Lingam massage or at escort meeting.
How to start? What are the benefitd? Everything you want to know about edging.
What is edging in sex / erotic massage?
Edging is a sexual technique of controlling your orgasm. The goal of edging is to delay an orgasm while staying highly aroused for an extended period of time.
Practicing edging involves stopping stimulation / stopping yourself from reaching an orgasm and balancing on the edge of climax. After a short break, the stimulation starts again. After a few cycles of stopping and starting again, the stimulation continues and you reach a very strong orgasm. Edging can be practiced solo during masturbation or together with a partner during sex or petting.
Many men also choose to try professional edging service with an escort or during an erotic massage / Lingam massage.
Benefits of edging
Edging is a safe sexual practice that is very beneficial. Some of the most important benefits of edging:
- Edging may give you better, strong, powerful orgasms and longer, more intense pleasure before an orgasm.
- You can learn to control your body and allow yourself to experience orgasms fully
- Edging is one of the ways to help men last longer during sex. It’s a helpful technique especially for those who come too quickly.
- Edging is a good way to practice slow sex, learning about your body (and your partner’s body), having deeper intimacy and connection with your partner.
- Edging can help you learn receiving pleasure from sex / stimulation without rushing to an orgasm and without focusing on reaching the goal.
Edging during an erotic massage
Edging can be a part of an erotic massage. Orgasm control is one of ways you can make your massage even more exciting and fulfilling.
What to expect at edging erotic massage?
After a relaxing massage of whole body, masseuse can start the Happy Ending – a Lingam massage / (handjob) or oral sex. When you feel you’re close to reaching an orgasm, you will let the masseuse know and she will stop the stimulation.
You’ll be able to enjoy a long wave of strong arousal. When you cool down a bit, she will start massaging your penis again. And once you’re close to orgasm, she will pause massage again. This way the masseuse can keep you on the edge for a very long time during the erotic massage session.
After a few cycles, when the masseuse is giving you an intimate massage and you feel you want to keep going and reach an orgasm, it’s important you let her know. She will not be edging you anymore and will focus the stimulation on finally leading you to an orgasm.
The breaks during an erotic massage can last just a moment or you may decide to pause the intimate stimulation for longer. Taking a break to relax and get some soothing sensual massage is a good way to make the edging session even longer. Edging session finished with Lingam massage (with warm oil and skin-to-skin contact) can make you reach an extremely strong orgasm.
Edging session with an escort
Having an edging session with an escort can be an exciting and satisfying experience for you. The edging session can be similar to the erotic massage session, but with escort usually you can enjoy a bit more. Edging can be practiced with having a handjob / petting / oral sex or classic sex. You can also choose to use some sex toys.
What to expect at an edging session with escort?
When you have sex with your partner (or petting / handjob / oral sex), and you feel you’re almost reaching an orgasm, let her know you’re close and she will stop the stimulation (or if you’re on top, just stop wehenever you feel at the peak of excitement). After a short break, start again.
During edging with escort it’s nice to change the type of stimulation – for example start with a handjob and make a pause. Then enjoy some oral sex and make a few pauses. And then finally enjoy classic sex in a few different positions (with a few pauses).
During a long edging session with escort, you will be reaching a peak of excitement and she will be stopping the stimulation to let you cool down. Edging can be especially exciting during sex, when the escort is on top of you and she stops moving to let you cool down and you stay inside. This type of edging is incredibly satisfying and intimate.
When during the edging session you feel ready to have an orgasm, let your partner know to keep going (or if you’re on top, just keep going) and enjoy your intense after-edging orgasm.
Trying edging with your partner or alone - tips
Trying edging alone
- Prepare your environment and get in a mood. Play some music and get comfortable on bed / on a sofa.
- Start masturbating. You can do it with hands or using sex toys. Observe your body and your reactions to different type of stimulation and different tempo. Take your time and don’t rush.
- When you feel you’re getting close to orgasm, slow down or stop the stimulation completely.
- Cool off for a few seconds and reduce your arousal slightly. Take a few calm, deep breaths, relax your body.
- Start masturbating again and stop whenever you feel you’re about to come. Then start masturbating again. You can do as many cycles as you like.
- When you feel you want to come, allow yourself to reach an orgasm.
Trying edging with partner
- First you need to agree the signal you’re partner is going to give you when they’re getting close to an orgasm.
- Start a foreplay and slowly begin having sex / intimate massage / petting / handjob / playing with toys or any stimulation that you like.
- When your partner is close to reachig an orgasm, stop stimulation or slow down.
- Take a break, give them a few seconds to relax and cool down. If you’re not sure when they’re ready to start again, ask them to let you know.
- Start the stimulation again. You can do as many cycles as you both like.
- When your partner wants to reach an orgasm, stimulate them until they come. Notice that after edging, orgasms can be much longer, so make sure not to stop stimulation too quickly and allow them to fully receive their orgasm.
When trying edging with your partner, you can have a really long sex / petting session with extended breaks. During breaks you can give each other sensual massage or just cuddle and relax.
You can also take turns in stimulation and edging. Give a few cycles for your partner and then take a break to receive stimulation and edging from them. And then take a turn again. This is the easiest to practice when you use your hands or have oral sex (instead of having classic sex).
Once you get some experience at edging with your partner, you can try mutual masturbation with edging and keep each other at the edge simultaneously.
Edging Erotic Massage in Warsaw / Edging Session with Escort
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