10 rules: How To Be a Good Client at Erotic massage? Do’s and Don’ts you must know

Being a good client at an erotic massage is easy. Check out those 10 basic rules on how to be a good client that masseuses want to meet again.

Read her website

The first thing to do is to read her website in detail. Learn more about her, her services, her rates. Check out her availability and her booking instructions. When you contact her actually knowing what’s on her website, you will make a good first impression. There’s nothing worse you can do than reach out to a masseuse and ask all the basic questions and waste her time.

Book in advance

When you plan to date an appointment, contact her in advance. Usually masseuses are not available for last-minute bookings and expect clients to schedule sessions a day or a few days in advance.

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Approach her properly

The first contact you make with a masseuse is really important. Make sure you approach her the way she prefers. If she expects email, send her an email. If she prefers Whatsapp, contact her on Whatsapp. Notice that many providers don’t make bookings by a phone call and don’t answer phone calls at all. Never ever call (or even worse, videocall) a provider if she stated clearly not to do that.

Respect her booking process and rules

Every masseuse has her rules and her booking process she made for a reason. As a client you should always accept and respect her rules and the booking process. If you can’t accept some rules / booking steps, simply move on and find another provider. Never try to skip the deposit or providing information she asks for. Always introduce yourself properly, tell her what you expect durng an apointment (istead of saying “I like what you do, I want everything”) etc.

Respect her time

Soooo many potential clients waste girls’ time, it’s really hard to imagine unless you’ve  spent a day answering clients’ messages. Don’t be one of those clients. Respecting (and disrespecting) her time can be shown in so many ways. 

  • Don’t ask for dicounts. If you can’t pay her rate, just find someone in your budget. Asking someone to do her work for less money is really rude.
  • Don’t overstay. If you’ve booked a 2h session, stay 2h, not 2,5 h. When time is up, slowly finish the meeting. Don’t wait until she tells you that you’re over the time.
  • Let her know if you’re running late. If you need to rescheudle the meeting, let her know in advance if possible. If you meet for incall, don’t show up earlier or at least text her to ask if you can come earlier and if she’s ready.
  • Send a proper booking request and book smoothly without too much messaging back and forth etc. Remember that booking process is just for booking. It’s not time for chatting and getting to know each other.

Pay at the beginning of the appointment

When you meet your masseuse, pay her at the beginning. Don’t wait until she asks for the money. Make sure you know how she wants to receive the money. For example many girls prefer if you put the money in the envelope and put it in a visible place so she can easily collect them when she arrives while others like it when you hand them money directly.

Be well prepared and clean

This is such a basic and obvious thing. Sadly, not for everyone… When having a sensual massage, always be clean, fresh and well prepared for intimate time. When you arrive at her inall, take a quick shower again to refresh. Make sure your breath is fresh, your hands are neat etc.

Be gentle

Always be gentle. When you massage her, kiss her, when you touch her, when you have sex with her.

Respect her boundaries

Respectinig boundaries is a base of a good relation with masseuse (with every single person you meet actually). If you disrespect her boundaries, you can be sure she will not want to meet you again. If she doesn’t consent to do something, simply accept that. Don’t ask her to justify her decisions, don’t try to convinice her. Simply accept that no is no.

Booking an erotic massage in Warsaw

If you’re looking for an erotic massage in Warsaw, make sure to check out my website:

Sensual massage in Warsaw with Nicole Kaminski

I’m an independent, professional masseuse based in Warsaw, Poland. On my blog, I write about subjects related to my work: erotic massage, sensuality & intimacy. You can also find here interesting posts for massage clients and helpful tips for gentlemen planning to book an erotic massage in Warsaw.

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