Sexy dictionary - helpful dictionary of words related to sex (and more)

HJ, OWO, DFK, FBSM? What does it mean?
Has it ever happened to you while scrolling through escort directories, that you saw some misterious abbreviations? Have you ever wondered what all those phrases mean? In this post I’ll explain all the popular abbreviations and names of services and things related to sex.

The most popular abbreviations related to sex


Full Body Sensual Massage – erotic massage of any kind finished with happy ending.

Differences between a “regular” / “normal” massage and erotic massage. Read more here.


Many kinds of sexual activites (not neccesarily involving penetrative sex) in a kinky / spicy climate. The abbreviation comes from the words: bondage & discipline, domination & submission, sadism & masochism. BDSM is a very wide range of activities that may involve role play, fetishes, costumes and sex toys.


Fly Me To You – a meeting with an escort / companion that lives in a different city / country than you. The girl flies to your location for the meeting. Usually the FMTY dates are longer. During a FMTY meeting the client is obligated to pay additionally for the travel, accomodation etc.


Girlfriend Experience is an escort meeting similar to a meeting with your own girlfriend. GFE meeting may involve services like kissing, cuddling, conversation, dinner date etc. but really it’s all about the atmosphere – no rush and no stress. The most important thing in GFE – you should feel like on a meeting with a close friend or a girlfriend – you sould not feel like a client.

Massage in a GFE style? It’s the most sensual massage with a passionate finale. Read more about the GFE massage here.


PSE means Pornstar Experience. During this kind of meeting you can feel like you’re an actor in an adult movie. PSE is usually less romantic than GFE. In PSE it’s not about tenderness and affection – it’s more about the action, stronger sensations and fulfilling your fantasies. There are no obligatory services that must be included in PSE, however the most typical services for PSE are: anal sex, slapping, oral without condom (sometimes cum in mouth, on face and deep throat), role play, dirty talk, sex toys and light elements of BDSM.

A-level, Greek Sex, Anal

All the phrases mean anal sex.


HJ means handjob. Often it’s a part of an erotic / happy ending massage, sometimes it can be a part of mutual masturbation.


BJ means blowjob, oral sex.


CBJ means blowjob coveres – blowjob with a condom.


Both abbreviations mean oral sex without a condom:
OWO – oral without
BBBJ – bareback blowjob


DT means deep throat – deep blowjob during which man’s penis reaches woman’s throat – which gives intense sentations. Deep throat can be a kind of fetish related to domination and control – during deep throat a man can (after getting the partner’s consent) hold her head or hair in order to cause deeper penetration or gag.


LK – light kisses
FK – french kisses, kisses with tongue
DFK – deep french kisses, passionate, deep kisses with tongue


COB – Cum on body
CIM – Cum in mouth
CIF – Cum in face, cum on face


Different types of threesome – sex intercourse involving three partners. The letter M means Male – man and the F means Female – woman.


Dining at the Y – Oral sex given to woman. The letter Y symbolises the woman’s position – lying with spread legs.


DP mean double penetration (vaginal and anal) performed in a threesome by two men or perfermed by a man and woman (using a dildo).


BS is a body slide – body to body massage (B2B), NURU massage

What is NURU massage? Check what the NURu session look likes here.

FS - Full Service

Full service can be a bit confusing. It means not more, not less than a service involving sex (oral and classic). Full service means a meeting with a sex worker that offers sex – on the contrary to a meetings with sex workers who do not offer sex like some masseuse, dominatrix or erotic dancers.


GS is a golden shower, meaning peeing on someone or letting someone pee on you as a part of fetish. In escort profiles on the most of directories it is specified if the escort offers giving or receiving GS.

These are the most popular abbreviations of sexual activities. Are there some other phrases you’d like to see in the next part of the dictionary?


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