How To Kiss: 21 Tips To Be a Better Kisser
Kissing is awesome but it may be harder than you think, especially if you are new to this.
How to kiss? What to do with hands? What mistakes to avoid? Check out my 21 tips that will help you become a better kisser.
Basic rules
Keep your breath minty fresh
If you’re about to get intimate with someone, always keep your breath fresh. Brush your teeth before the date, have some chewing gum. Before the date avoid foods with intense smells like garlic, onion, fish etc.
Soft lips
Make sure your lips are nice and soft. No dry or cracked skin.
If you usually have dry lips, use a lip scrub and lip balm to make your lips soft and irresistable.
Close your eyes
When you kiss, close your eyes. It’s going to feel nicer for you, as you can focus better on what you feel instead of what you see.
And well, when you kiss and you realize that your partner has his eyes open, it just feels awkward and kills the mood.
Breathe with your nose
First of all, in all the excitement remember to breath.
Second, breathe with your nose, not with your mouth. It feels really uncomfortable and strange when you kiss and your partner breathes with his mouth into yours.
Be gentle and increase the intensity with time
When you kiss, you want to start gently and increase intensity with time, once you know that your partner is into that as well.
Kissing tips for start
Build up the tention
The moment of tention before the kiss, when you are close but not kissing yet is the best, so exciting and steamy. Don’t rush and don’t skip this moment. Enjoy it and let your girl enjoy it as well.
You can do a little intro to kissing – cuddle, rub each other. You may kiss her neck, then go a bit up and kiss closer to her ear, then kiss her cheek, then very slowly get closer and kiss her lips.
First start with a single kiss, with very light pressure as if you’re not sure if kissing her is too bold of you. Then if you feel she wants more, kiss her again, this time a bit more passionately.
Start slowly
Start slowly and take a moment to feel yoursleves. Try to feel how she kisses you and adjust to your partner to find a sweet spot for you both.
If you’re not sure how she wants to be kissed, mirror what she does. Most of people kiss the way they like to be kissed. If you both adjust your kiss a little, you’re going to meet halfay in a perfect kiss.
Read her body language
Whenever you are intimate with someone, pay attention to what she does and how she responds to what you do. Try to read her gestures and body language to make sure that kissing is enjoyable for both of you.
Relax
Do not tense up your lips. Be relaxed – this way your lips will feel soft and very nice to your partner.
Express how you feel
Express how you feel and how much you’re enjoying the kiss – with a little moan or a few gentle words. It’s going to heat up the atmosphere, as soft moans work arousing on most of people.
Moaning or communicating during kissing is a great way for you to practice expressing yourself in the moments of affection.
Kissing with tongue & starting the foreplay
Just the tip
If you want to use your tongue, start gently, with just the tip of the tongue. See if your partner likes it too, and then add a bit more tongue. Not too much though. Putting your whole tongue deep into her mouth is never a good idea.
Relax your tongue
During French kiss always keep your tongue relaxed. Think of it as if you want to rub her tongue or lick her tongue with yours gently.
Never put a tense, hard tongue into her mouth. That really doesn’t feel good.
Find your rythm
When you kiss, try to find the right rythm and tempo.
Don’t focus too much on one thing. For example if you spend a looong time with your mouth wide open, playing with the tongue and you’re not closing your mouth for a while, then it feels really weird for the other person.
A natural rythm is to open your mouth a bit, play with the tongue for a moment and then close your mouth with the kissing of the lips.
Take a break
It’s nice to take a break sometimes during the kiss. You can do so just to kiss her cheeks or nose, to look and smile to her, to hug her or to show affection some other way.
Add a little something
Kissing is fun but there’s much more you can add to that.
Hold her hand, run your fingers through her hair, grasp her cheek, gently hold her neck or press her delicately towards you with your hand on her back.
Let your whole body take part in the game to increase arousal and transition smoothly into more intimate foreplay and sex (if that’s what you both want).
Extra tips
Extra tips to improve your kissing skills
- Control your saliva. A perfect kiss is a bit wet, but without too much saliva. Remember, no one enjoys saliva all over their face.
- Be careful with the teeth. Move slowly when your faces are close to each other. Otherwise you may hit your partner’s lips/teeth with yours, causing her pain or you may injure yourselves.
- If you have a short beard or moustache, be super gentle – if your beard is scratchy you’re going to have to go for soft kisses with light pressure only. You don’t want to scrath your partners face and leave it red, do you?
- Don’t suck her lips too hard. First of all, it really hurts – lips are extremely delicate and sensitive. Second, you may leave her lips bruised.
- Don’t get too crazy with the kissing. Soft biting and very deep kisses are allowed only if she likes it.
- When you go from oral sex to kissing, always wipe your mouth.
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