FAQ: Erotic Massage For Beginners

As a beginner you probably have many questions about erotic massage. In this post I’m answering the most popular questions asked by clients who are not experienced in getting erotic massages.

Everything you need to know about erotic massage as a beginner

What does erotic massage look like?
During erotic massage we are both naked. Usually erotic massage starts with a full body Swedish massage that allows you to relax. After the relaxing massage, there’s the time for the more sensual part.

Depending on your needs, the happy ending may involve a Lingam massage or something more sensual, like oral sex, kisses, classic sex (the GFE style happy ending).

If you’d like, the session may start with a joint shower or bath. The session may also involve mutual massage.

If you’re new to massages make sure to check out this post: Relaxing Massage vs Erotic Massage – Differences You Must Know

How to behave during erotic massage?
I recommend that during the first part of the session you stay more passive. Focus on yourself, calm down, slow down and just relax.

During the erotic part of the session you may get more active – you can touch me, kiss me, give me massage…

If you’re interested in a different type of session, you can always let me know in advance and we can adjust it to your expectations.

FAQ erotic massage for beginners | Warsaw Erotic Massage

What’s allowed and not allowed during erotic massage?
During the massage mutual touch is allowed. We can kiss passionately, have mutual oral sex and classic sex. If you enjoy mutual interaction, you can also give me a relaxing / intimate massage.

If there’s some type of activity you’re interested in, feel free to ask me if it’s possible to include that into the session.

Can I book an erotic massage if I’m inexperienced with women / I’m a virgin?
Of course! Erotic massage can be a valuable experience for every inexperienced man. If you are a virgin, it’s good that you let me know before the massage, so that I can adjust the session to your needs.

Is erotic massage a good way to lose virginity?
Erotic massage is a great way to lose virginity. You can read more about this in this post:
Why Erotic Massage is a Good Way to Lose Virginity.

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What type of erotic massage is the best for the first time?
That really depends on what you’re ready for and what your boundaries are. If you feel you’re ready to try the full GFE massage experience, we can do that.

If you feel you might get a bit overwhelmed with the intensity of GFE massage, we can try something more soft – for example a relaxing massage with mutual touch and intimate Lingam massage at the end. For many men Lingam massage / handjob is even better than sex, so I’m sure you will enjoy this type of happy ending.

It might be that during the massage you get a bit more comfortable and you’d like to try something more. In that case we can always get more sensual.

How long should an erotic massage last?
I recommend booking at least 1.5h-2h massage sessions. Long sessions are more relaxed, unrushed and they give you a better opportunity to deeply relax and experience more.

What if I’m not able to come during the happy ending?
You don’t have to worry about that. The most important thing is that you ejoy the touch and that the massage is relaxing and pleasurable for you.

Don’t feel pressured to “perform well” during the massage. You don’t have to reach an orgasm and ejaculate – it’s just a nice addition to the whole sensual session.

What if I come too quickly during the happy ending?
That is fine. If you like the massage and caress and you get very aroused, you might come quickly, and that’s okay.

If you don’t want to come that fast, we may slow down a bit and try to make it last longer. No pressure though, just go with the flow and enjoy it.

For men who want to last longer during an erotic massage, I recommend trying edging.

Can we have more than one happy ending during the erotic massage?
Sure. During the session we can have a happy beginning and a happy ending. This type of massage is perfect for men who get very aroused during massage and would prefer to have the happy beginnnig first to be able to relax better during the massage.

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Escort Warsaw Nicole Kaminski - GFE Escort Companion

I’m an independent escort based in Warsaw, Poland. On my blog, I write about subjects related to my work: escort dates, Girlfriend Experience, erotic massage, sex & intimacy. You can also find here interesting posts for escort clients and helpful tips for gentlemen planning to book an escort in Warsaw.

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