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Despite being a practice that has been around for centuries, erotic massage still carries a lot of misconceptions and stigma. The common misconceptions about erotic massages are often far from the truth. In this blog post, I will explain three of the most popular misconceptions about erotic massages.
One of the biggest misconceptions about erotic massages is that they are not professional. Many people believe that erotic masseuses are not trained in massage and have no qualifications for a professional massage.
The truth is, many erotic masseuses (especially independent) are qualified in different types of massages and have a good training. Additionally, many professional and licensed massage therapists who specialize in “regular” massages, offer erotic massages as part of their services as well.
Many erotic masseuses have finished multiple massage courses and are skilled in all the techniques that non-erotic masseuses know, plus they know additional techniques such as Lingam massage or Yoni massage, that provide not only relaxation, but sensual stimulaton and sexual fulfillment.
Seed of truth in the myth… It’s true that some of erotic masseuses are not qualified in a professional massage. Often these masseuses provide a delicate, sensual massage as a foreplay to other sexual services and don’t advertise their massage services as professional.
It’s also noticable that some erotic massage salons often hire unexperiences girls and don’t give them any proper training in massage techniques, while claiming at the same time that they provide fully professional massages. In erotic massage salons girls often come and go, so it’s quite understandable why some erotic massage parlours don’t invest in their employees’ training.
If receiving a professional massage is a priority to you, always make sure what kind of qualifications the masseuse has. Here you can find more tips that will hel you book a good erotic massage: Don’t book an erotic massage without asking those 3 questions.
Many people believe that the only purpose of an erotic massage is to achieve an orgasm. They tend to think that sensual massages are focused only on sexual stimulation and reaching the quickest, the most intense (or multiple) orgasm possible.
While it’s true that erotic massages can be sexually stimulating and fulfilling, they are not solely focused on achieving an orgasm. Rather, the goal of an erotic massage is to provide a holistic experience that encompasses both physical and emotional relaxation (and reaching an orgasm is just a natural reaction to the sensual touch).
Erotic massages focus on creating a safe and shame-free space where the recipient can let go of their inhibitions and fully embrace their sensuality. They aim to create a calm environment where the recipient can explore their sexual needs, connect with their body in a non-judgmental way and experience a physical and mental relaxation. Ultimately, the goal of an erotic massage is to promote self-awareness, mindfulness, and acceptance of one’s own sexuality. The sexual level of the erotic massage is the complement of the whole experience.
What’s surprirsing for many people, erotic massages don’t need to involve getting an orgasm at all. It’s more about enjoying the sensual touch and sexual stimulation than setting yourself the goal to get an orgasm.
Another common misconception about erotic massages is that they are not relaxing for the client, because he’s sexually stimulated and aroused during the massage. Again, this is not what erotic massages are like.
Erotic massages are very relaxing. Maybe even more than “regular massages”. The relaxation and stress relief provided by erotic massages is one of their key benefits. During an erotic massage, the therapist works to create a calming environment, often using relaxing music and soft lighting to set the mood.
The massage itself is designed to be slow and gentle, with the therapist using long, flowing strokes to help the recipient relax and unwind. While there may be moments of intense pleasure and arousal during an erotic massage, these are just one part of a much larger experience that is focused on relaxation.
Usually erotic massage sessions consist of 2 phases. The first phase is focused on the relaxing massage that is not very sensual or arousing. In this phase the client should stay rather passive and enjoy the relaxing touch. The second part of the massage is the sensual part that involves erotic touch and the happy ending. This is the part during which the client usually feels aroused and get the sexual fulfillment.
As you can see, a relaxing massage finished with an intimate massage can be even more relaxing and fulfilling than a regular non-erotic massage.
Seed of truth in the myth… It’s true that for many men the relaxing massage (the first phase of the session) is arousing. Some men tend to get excited easily and it’s hard for them to fully relax during massage without getting distracted. For those men the perfect solution is the Happy Beginning massage that starts with a Lingam massage. Getting the “Happy Ending” at the beginning of massage allows clients to relax fully during the relaxing massage.
Would you like to learn more about erotic massages? Visit my blog and read more articles about sensual massages. Here are some posts you might find interesting:
I’m an independent escort based in Warsaw, Poland. On my blog, I write about subjects related to my work: Girlfriend Experience, erotic massage, sensuality & intimacy. You can also find here interesting posts for gentlemen planning to start dating escorts and my Escorts Warsaw Guide.
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