How to Enjoy a Lingam Massage without Coming Too Quickly
Tips for Delaying an Orgasm During an Erotic Massage
Focus on Your Breath
One of the most important things you can do during a lingam massage is to focus on your breath. Deep breathing can help you stay relaxed and in control, which can help you last longer. When you feel you’re getting excited, take a slow, deep breath. Imagine it filling your whole body. Then slowly exhale and feel your body cooling down. Repeat this as many times as needed.
Take Breaks
If you feel yourself getting close to orgasm, take a break. Your masseuse can move her hands away from your lingam and focus on a relaxing massage of your body for a few minutes. It’s an opportunity for you to do the breath work and try our next technique…
Focus on All the Sensations
During massage, don’t just focus on the intimate sensations and intimate touch. Take the time to appreciate all the different sensations you’re experiencing, including the touch of your partner’s hands on your body and the feeling of the air on your skin. Redirecting focus from the arousing sensations to feeling your whole body and receciving the more relaxing touch can help you dicrease your arousal and control your excitement.
Try the Squeeze Method
Another technique that can help you last longer is the squeeze method. When you feel yourself getting close to orgasm, ask your masseuse to gently squeeze the base of your penis. That way you can delay ejaculation or even experience an orgasm (or multiple orgasms) without ejaculating.
Quick Happy Beginning, Extended Happy Ending
If you love long happy endings, consider getting a quick lingam massage at the beginning of your session to release the tension. This will make the rest of the experience much more enjoyable. Getting a happy beginning massage can help you relax deeply during the relaxing part of the session. After a happy beginning and a relaxing massage, you’ll be able to focus on a slow and extended happy ending at the end of the massage and fully enjoy the intimate massage.
Release the Tension the Day Before
Finally, consider releasing tension the day before your massage. If you know you usually come quicker than you’d like, give yourself an intimate massage the evening before your massage. This will certainly help you last longer during an erotic massage and will decrease the sexual tension.
Is coming too quickly a big deal?
If you wonder what to do in case you come too quickly during an erotic massage, you need to check out this post:
Clients’ Concerns: “What if I Come Too Quickly during an Erotic massage?”
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