The Ultimate Guide to Sensual Massages [For Clients]

Erotic Massages - Guide for Clients

Sensual massages are a great way to explore your body and discover new sensations. In this ultimate guide, I’ll cover everything you need to know about erotic massages, including the different types, how to prepare, what to expect, and more. So sit back, relax, and get ready to learn about the art of sensual touch.

What is erotic massage?

Erotic massage is a type of massage that focuses on relaxation and sensual touch. It can include different techniques to stimulate the erogenous zones of the body. It is usually performed with the goal of creating a pleasurable and relaxing experience for the recipient.

Erotic Massage is also called: Sensual Massage, Happy Ending Massage, Adult Massage, Nude Massage, Orgasmic Massage. Often they are also called (incorrectly) Exotic Massages or Tantric Massages.

What makes the erotic massages different from regular relaxing massages is the fact that during a sensual massage, the client and the masseuse are both naked. Usually erotic massages are finished with a Happy Ending as well. In this post you can learn more Differences between Erotic Massages and regular Relaxing Massages.

What types of erotic massages are there?

There are many different massage sessions available out there. Every masseuse and every salon creates their own sessions. Usually they consist of different elements and additional services (like joint shower, cuddling, mutual massage, kissing etc.), but generally each erotic massage is based either on the Full Body Massage (Relaxing Massage / Oil Massage) or Nuru Massage.

Full Body Sensual Massage / Full Body Massage
A Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM) is a session in which the whole body, from head to toes, is massaged. FBSM is typically based on the Swedish massage techniques and is performed with a use of oil. During massage the masseuse uses her hands and forearms to to provide a relaxing massage to the client.
Nuru Massage
Nuru massage, also known as Body-To-Body / Body Slide, is a popular erotic massage type. During a B2B massage, the masseuse uses her whole body to massage the client. She applies a water-based nuru gel or massage oil to gently slide her body and rub the client with her breasts, thighs, feet, belly, and even intimate areas. Nuru massage allows for more closeness and mutual touch than a relaxing massage, which is why it is so popular among clients. Check out this post to learn more reasons Why Men Love Nuru Massage.

What is happy ending massage?

Happy Ending massage is a massage session that is finished with a stimulation of intimate areas that leads to sexual fulfillment. Happy Ending massage is a relaxing and orgasmic experience. Although reaching an orgasm is not the focus during the whole session, it’s one of the main Reasons Why Men Get Erotic Massages.

The Happy Beginning Massage
Happy Beginning massage is a variant of an erotic massage that starts with a sensual fulfillment. After reaching a climax and refreshing in the shower the client feels less sexual tension and is able to easily relax and rest deeply during the massage without any interruptions (getting aroused). You can read more about the Happy Beginning massage here: Happy Beginning Massage – Everything You Should Know.

What types of happy endings are there?

There are a few types of happy endings. Some are just lightly sensual, some other are highly sexual:

Lingam Massage and Yoni Massage
Lingam Massage and Yoni massage is a type of intimate massage – Yoni massage for women and Lingam massage for men. The intimate massage is a very pleasurable experience and it allows the receipient to lay back, relax and receive the arousing touch. The goal of Lingam massage is to give the partner beautiful, long pleasure. Reaching an orgasm is like a nice “side effect” of the stimulation. It’s important not to focus on reaching a goal (orgasm) during the Lingam massage and rather focus on what’s here and now, on feeling the pleasure of touch.
Oral Happy Ending
Oral sex is another popular type of Happy Ending. It can be combined with a Lingam massage as well. Oily Lingam massage and sensual, long oral stimulation is an amazing finale of the massage for everyone who loves the French Sex.
Body To Body Happy Ending
Body To Body happy ending is often performed during the Nuru massage. During this type of happy ending the masseuse is on top of a client and rubs his intimate parts with her belly (or additionally uses her hand). The B2B happy ending is very sensual and because of the closeness and the position (girl on top), it can give quite similar stimuli as classic sex.
Classic Sex / GFE finale
GFE happy ending is the most erotic happy ending of all. During a GFE happy ending the client may enjoy passionate kisses, oral sex, Lingam massage, mutual affection, caress and amazing classic sex with the masseuse. Read more about the unique GFE massage here: What Is GFE Massage and Why Is It So Amazing?

Benefits of erotic massages

Erotic massage can be very beneficial for the mind and body. Massage reduces stress levels and promotes relaxation, reducing muscle soreness, stiffness, and swelling.

Relaxing massage techniques help muscles detoxify and regenerate more quickly. Swedish massage or stronger Regenerative Massage, which is often a part of erotic massage, improves blood circulation and lymphatic drainage.

Sensual massage can also boost the immune system, improve sleep quality, and leave the client feeling more energized after the session.

Is erotic massage for you?

So at this point you already know what erotic massages are. But are sensual massages for you? First of all, if you’d like to get an erotic massage, you should be adult. Erotic massage is only for adult people (in Poland 18+). Also, before getting an erotic massage, make sure that it’s legal in your country (in Poland, where I live and work erotic massages and sex work are fully legal, both for providers and clients <3).

If you feel you’re ready for this type of sensual experience, if you need to relax and receive some tempting touch, then erotic massage is most likely for you. Here you can read more about who is erotic massage for.

Where to find erotic massage providers?

If you’re looking for erotic masseuses, search them on escort directories such as EuroGirlsEscort.com, search Google with phrases like “Erotic Massage -City-“, “Sensual Massage -City-“, “Lingam Massage -City-“, “GFE Massage -City-” or try searching on Twitter using similar phrases.

To ensure you’re meeting a real person, always choose masseuses who have some of the following: verified profiles, social media, their own websites, reviews, photos with visible face. The more of the things listed above the girl has, the more trustworthy her profile is.

How to choose a good erotic masseuse?

To be fully satisfied with your erotic massage, you should do a proper research, learn more about the masseuses and their massage sessions and choose the provider that matches your expectations.

In the posts below you can find more tips on how to find a good erotic masseuse and learn the differences between professional erotic massage and amateur erotic massage. Knowing the difference will help you decide what type of massage you’re really looking for.

How to choose the right sensual massage type for yourself?

When choosing an erotic massage session for yourself, you should always consider those 2 aspects:

How much massage (passive relaxation) you expect during the session
How much sensuality and erotism you’re ready for

Massage
If you expect the session to start with a proper and long relaxing massage, it’s best to search for a session that involves a professional Swedish massage.

If you’re not really interested in the relaxing part of the session, you’ll probably love a massage that is based on the Nuru massage or an intuitive Mutual massage with the masseuse.

Sensuality
Regarding the sensual aspect of the massage: if you think you will be satisfied with an intimate massage, then Lingam happy ending will be right for you.

If you wish to experience massage with more affection and erotism, you should consier sessions that involve kissing and cuddling or joint bath / joint shower or oral sex / classic sex. Maybe GFE massage is what you’re looking for.

If you’d like to see the comparison of my massages and find out which massage is best for you, check out this article: Choosing the right erotic massage for yourself.

How to prepare for an erotic massage?

Preparing for the erotic massage is an important part that allows you to get the most from the session.

preparing for incall massage
If you’re visiting a masseuse at her studio / apartment, there is not much preparation required. Make sure to take a shower at home and if you like, groom the intimate areas as well. Here you can read more about weather the clients should shave before the erotic massage: Clients’ Questions: Should I Groom Intimate Parts before the Erotic Massage?
When you arrive to the studio / salon / apartment, you will have an opportunity to refresh again. When visiting an erotic massage studio, you don’t need to bring anything with you. The oil, towels, shower gel will be provided.
preparing for outcall massage
If you’re ordering an outcall massage and the masseuse is visiting you at your home / hotel room, you will most likely be asked to prepare a big towel to spread on the bed and one extra towel for the masseuse to use after shower. You can also prepare a box of tissue and put it on the beside table. All other things the masseuse most likely with have with her: oil, music and condoms if you’re getting a massage with sex.

In these posts you can read even more about preparation and outcall massages:

What to expect at an erotic massage?

When you’re booking your first erotic massage, you proably wonder what to expect at the session. If you took your time to choose a good erotic masseuse, you should expect only positive things.

You can expect to feel relaxed and taken care of. You can expect to have a nice, relaxing time with a kind and friendly masseuse. You may expect to experience lots of nourturing touch, arousing massage, affection and to feel calm and satisfied at the end of the session.

And if you’re not experienced in this type of session, you can expect the masseuse to guide through it.

How to behave during a sensual massage?

You probably also wonder how to behave during an erotic massage and what is allowed / not allowed. In that case you should read your masseuse’s rules on her website / profile.

Note that every masseuse has a different range of services and different boundaries. Also, even when booking two different massage types with the same masseuse, different rules / boundaries may apply.

Always make sure if the erotic massage you chose allows full nudity / mutual touch / mutual intimate touch / cuddling / kissing or whatever activity you’re interested in. And of course, always respect your masseuse’s boundaries (and expect her to respect yours).

Importance of communication during a sensual massage

Before you get your first erotic massage, you should know that communication during erotic massage is essential. You should always communicate your expectations, limits, boundaries to ensure you’re going to get a pleasurable, flawless experience.

Even during the session if you feel any type of discomfort or you’d like the masseuse to adjust the technique, you should always speak up.

Here you can read more about the communication during massage: 4 Questions You Should Expect to be Asked During an Erotic Massage

Erotic massage FAQ

How often can I get erotic massages?

You can get erotic massages as often as you like. Getting massages regularly increases their benefits and gives you a chance to create a deeper connection with your masseuse. Clients who get massages regularly usually go for weekly or biweekly appointments.

What if I can’t get an erection during an erotic massage or come too quickly?

Not being able to get full erection during massage or coming too quickly are common concerns of clients, but it’s something you shouldn’t worry about. I wrote a whole blog post about it here, so check it out: Clients’ Concerns: “What if I Come Too Quickly during an Erotic massage?”.

And here you can find a few techniques that will help you delay an orgasm during an erotic massage.

Can I get an erotic massage if I’m a virgin?

Yes. Getting an erotic massage as a virgin is a great idea. You can go for a light version of sensual massage with the Lingam massage or if you’d like to experience more, choose the GFE massage. Here you can read more about it: Is Erotic Massage a Good Way to Lose Virginity?

What more should I know before getting an erotic massage?

Here you can find more posts about erotic massages. You can find them especially helpful if you’re a beginner at erotic massages:

Booking an erotic massage with me

If you’d like to book an erotic massage with me, check out my main massages page here: Erotic Massage in Warsaw – Nicole Kaminski.

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Nicole Kaminski

Independent Escort in Warsaw

I’m an independent escort based in Warsaw, Poland. On my blog, I write about subjects related to my work: Girlfriend Experience, erotic massage, sensuality & intimacy. You can also find here interesting posts for gentlemen planning to start dating escorts and my Escorts Warsaw Guide.